Sending Your “One” Some Love This Thanksgiving

As we pray for our “ones” and look for ways to leverage Thanksgiving, a simple way to keep cultivating your relationship with those people is to send a brief text showing gratitude for them and your friendship. Here’s an example of a text I sent to a friend today: 

“Hey (name), as we approach Thanksgiving, I just want you to know I thank the Lord for our friendship and I’m grateful for the conversations and hang outs that we have had. May you and your family feel God‘s presence and peace and joy in this season! I look forward to connecting again soon. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!”

I encourage you to pause and send a little note or test to your one (or ones), along with pausing and praying for them.  May God use your love and friendship to draw them to Christ!

Live new,

Pastor Chad

Long Story Short – Write Your Four Minute Story, Part Two

We’re continuing our work to write our own “Long Story Short”. The goal of writing our story is to share it with others. Remember: Effective communication is clear, concise, and compelling. Sharing your story should in total take 3-4 minutes. That’s between 500 and 700 words. These weekly guides will help you craft and capture the four segments of your story of faith in Christ.

Today’s focus – THE FALL – What did sin and brokenness look like in your life?

What are the evidences of the fall in your own life? What was the pain that you experienced and the pain that you caused? The pain we experience and cause in life often springs out of seeking to satisfy our deep inner needs and fix our own brokenness apart from God. You likely sought to fix your brokenness and deep inner needs through unsatisfactory solutions that damaged your own life or caused hurt in the lives of others.

What were one or two of your unsatisfied deep inner needs before you came to know Jesus? How did you see brokenness playing out in your life? What unsatisfactory solutions did you use to attempt to meet those deep inner needs or fix your brokenness? How did these attempts disappoint you or let you down? How was your life unfulfilling? How did you come to realize this? What were your struggles before you received Christ?

Some examples could be:

“I was seeking for…”

“My life revolved around…”

“I gained happiness and security from…”

“My life was missing…”

“My attitude was…”

“I blamed my issues on…”

“My life was filled with problems I could not solve…”

(Use an example from your personal life here. For instance, did your security come from money, your relationships, etc.?)

Long Story Short – Write Your Four Minute Story, Part One

Let’s work on writing our own “Long Story Short”. Our teaching team is going to guide us through how to write our story over the coming weeks of this series. The goal of writing our story is to share it with others!

Week One focus – CREATION – Your Background and God Awareness

First, share a few positive details about your life. Since you were created in the image of our God, you experienced Him and His goodness in a variety of ways. You might share a little about your family of origin. You might share about the hopes and dreams you had for your life.

Questions to answer that can shape this part of your story:

What brought you joy?

What contributions did you hope to make?

What career path did you hope to follow?

What was your faith or church background?

What spiritual beliefs did you hold?

What spiritual experiences may you have had that caused you to be aware of God or feel close to God?

Before knowing Christ, how would you have answered the questions of where you came from and why are you here?

Craft this part of your story this week. Practice it, tell it. We will build it each week.

Remember what Pastor Chad said in his week one message: My identity and purpose come from the One who made me and loves me.

Be Missional this Sunday!

This weekend we have a unique opportunity to be LifeHouses. Many of us will have neighbors showing up at our door as they and their children walk from house-to-house collecting candy. What are some ways we can shine the light of Christ to them?

Here are a few ideas from our team!

  • Place a prayer request basket out in the driveway where parents stand. People will likely not fill them out, but you might get one. You will also be letting your neighbors know that you’re a person of prayer and that you care for them.
  • Include a Bible verse attached to every piece of candy.
  • Set out an article for parents on “how to talk to children about Christ and Spiritual Warfare” https://parentingforfaith.org/post/talking-our-kids-about-devil
  • Be intentional in getting to know neighbors. Place a portable firepit in the driveway and encourage neighbors to sit with you while you all hand out candy.
  • Participate in CVC’s Trunk or Treat on Saturday! This is a great way to get in the community. You can even invite a neighbor to join you!
  • Say a silent prayer over every child that comes to the door.
  • Open your garage and decorate it for the adults to chat and have coffee, cider, and donuts while decorating your yard for the kids with tons of inflatables! You would become a definite stop on the trick-or-treating route, and it’s a great way to meet neighbors!
  • Be unique and fun in a way that will draw kids and parents if you are staying home and handing out candy. Put out corn hole boards and have kids try to throw bags into the holes to win a large candy bar in addition to the candy you’re already handing out. Have invite cards for CVC handy if conversations turn that direction.
  • Bake cinnamon bread for your neighbors!
  • Offer to babysit an infant for a neighbor so both parents can trick-or-treat with older children on a cold, rainy, windy night.

The Essential Gospel: A Prayer based on Ephesians 6:14-20

O sovereign Father,

Thank You that I am Your child, heavenly Father. Since I am Your child, then I am Your heir – an heir of God and a fellow heir with Christ. When the enemy causes me to doubt my identity in Christ – telling me I’m a worthless sinner, a lost cause, an embarrassment to You – remind me of whose I am and who You say I am – a saint, a new creation, Your beloved child, living new in Christ. Because I am in Christ, I can now resist the devil as He did. In Christ, I claim the promise that no weapon formed against me or my family shall prosper (Romans 8:15-17; 1 Peter 5:8-9; Isaiah 54:17; Ephesians 1:1; 2 Corinthians 5:17; John 3:16).

I know that the devil is prowling around like a roaring lion wanting to devour me. He and his demons are seeking to steal, kill, and destroy everything good and godly that I hold dear. I recognize that the devil is attempting to incite me to sin – to prompt me to do evil. I’m desperately dependent on You to fight off the enemy’s deceitful attacks. Help me today to trust in You, to win today’s spiritual battles, and to bring glory and honor to Your name (1 Peter 5:8; John 10:10b; Ephesians 6:12; Luke 10:18; 1 Chronicles 21:1; John 13:2; Acts 5:3).

Sovereign God, keep me from the enemy: the evil one, the tempter, the accuser. Protect me from his followers, the fallen angels who are now the evil spirits who are seeking to minimize and neutralize my life in Christ. Lead me not into temptation, but deliver me from the evil one (Revelation 12:7-9; Matthew 6:13; 1 Thessalonians 3:5; Revelation 12:10, Leviticus 17:7; Luke 8:30; Luke 7:21).

Help me remain strong in Your mighty power and stand against the enemy’s wicked schemes. Almighty Lord, thank You for spiritual armor for the spiritual battle – the belt of truth; the breastplate of righteousness; the helmet of salvation; and shoes that speed me on as I proclaim the Gospel of peace. Keep teaching me that truth, righteousness, peace, faith, and salvation are more than words. Help me learn more and more how to apply them. Help me to hold the shield of faith that will quench every burning missile the enemy hurls at me. Help me to wield the sword of the Spirit, the Word of God which is an indispensable weapon. By faith, I now put on each piece of Your armor. Keep reminding me that prayer is the means by which I clothe myself in Your armor and by which I wage war in this ongoing battle (Ephesians 6:10-18).

Help me to submit again today to Your authority, Your control, and Your will. May Your kingdom come and Your will be done in and through me. Lead me to say “no” to the devil and his temptations and “yes” to You and Your abundant life. By Your power, help me resist the devil and see him flee (Matthew 6:10; Luke 9:23; John 10:10; James 4:7).

Thank You for spiritual weapons such as faith, truth, and righteousness that demolish strongholds.  Help me to keep my mind fixed on what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy (2 Corinthians 10:3-6; Philippians 4:8).

In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, the One who shed His blood on the cross and rose from the grave, I ask You, Father to command any evil spirits to leave me, my family, and my ministry. Because I am in Christ and stand in His victory, all demons must flee. Through You, Father, evil spirits, rulers, authorities, cosmic powers, spiritual forces of darkness, are no longer free to steal, kill, and destroy my mind, my body, my soul, my family, my home, and my ministry. In the name of Jesus, I resist the devil and all demons.  

And now, Father, may Your Holy Spirit lead me and guide me today. Fill me. Bear Your fruit through me. Grant to me the ability to discern between righteousness and wickedness and the wisdom to choose the path of righteousness (Romans 8:13-14; Ephesians 5:18; Galatians 5:22-23; Ephesians 5:10; Joshua 24:14-15).

Lord God, help me to live in the light of Your presence. Lead me in Your paths of righteousness and away from anything evil. Thank You that because Christ is victorious, I need not wage war for victory but from victory. (John 17:15; Ephesians 1:18-23; John 12:26; Psalm 23:3).

Amen.

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This prayer has been inspired by Ephesians 6:14-20. Some of the words and phrases in this prayer have been taken directly from the English Standard Version, the J.B. Phillips New Testament, The Message, and the Living Bible. This prayer has also been composed with help from Dean Ridings, author of the Pray!Prayer Journal (NavPress) and Wayne Grudem’s Systematic Theology

The Essential Gospel: A Prayer based on Ephesians 6:10-13

My Father in heaven, 

You are my Hope, my Victory, and my Peace. Because you are the only sovereign King who rules over all heaven and earth, may I be confident and unafraid today. My strength, my courage, and my joy come only from You, Lord. You alone are my Savior (Matthew 12:20-21; Isaiah 9:6-7; 1 Timothy 6:15-16; Isaiah 41:10; Isaiah 12:2).

I come to You, Father, only through the merits of the Lord Jesus Christ, the One who died on the cross and shed His blood to forgive all my sins – past, present, and future – and who rose from the dead, ascended into heaven, and sent His Spirit to live in me (Romans 5:8-10; 1 Corinthians 15:3-6; Acts 1:8-9).

I come to You, Father, through the power of the Holy Spirit who has caused me to be born again, who now lives in me, and who intercedes for me with groanings too deep for words (John 3:3-8, John 14:16-17, Romans 8:26).

I come boldly to Your throne of grace to find Your help in my time of need. I need You today, Lord. I am desperate for You. I trust You, Lord God, to defeat my enemies – the world, the flesh, and the devil – that wage war against the physical, relational, emotional, and spiritual health of my family, my ministry, and my soul (Hebrews 4:16; Psalm 63:1; Ephesians 6:10-18).

Lord, please forgive me for the ways I have given the enemy opportunities to gain any foothold or stronghold in my life, my family, or my ministry.  By Your grace and for Your glory, help me take back any ground he’s gained. Help me to be aware of his schemes and to not be ignorant of his devices (Deuteronomy 18:9-12; Psalm 139:23-24; Ephesians 4:27, Ephesians 6:11; 2 Corinthians 2:11).

Thank You, Father, for sending the Lord Jesus to rescue me from my sins and from the devil’s strongholds by going to the cross for me. In Christ You have disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame by triumphing over them through Christ’s work on the cross (Colossians 2:13-15; 2 Corinthians 2:14). 

Thank You for clothing me in the righteousness of Christ Jesus. I am Your property, Father. I belong to You, Lord. Grant to me Your prosperity as I delight in Your law and meditate on Your Word (Isaiah 61:10; 1 Corinthians 6:19-20; Psalm 1:1-3; Joshua 1:8).

I ask You, Lord God, to demonstrate Your great power over the enemy. Win victories this day in, through, with, and for me. Enable me to put on all of Your spiritual armor so that I will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil. Show me how to stand up to everything the devil may throw my way so that I can successfully resist all the devil’s methods of attack. Teach me that this invisible spiritual warfare is an actual life-or-death fight to the finish against the devil and his fallen angels. Keep reminding me that I am not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:10-12).

Now, I ask You, Lord God, to build a hedge of protection around me and my loved ones throughout this day and night. I ask You, in the name of Jesus, to send angels to surround us and to protect us today and every day. Guard our souls – our bodies, minds, wills and emotions.  May Your holy angels protect us from any and all harmful demonic attacks. Because the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ is with me, I live by faith and know that You, the God of peace, will soon crush Satan under my feet (Job 1:10; Psalm 3:3; Psalm 34:7; Romans 16:20).

Almighty God, use me as a soldier in Your spiritual battles. I need not live in fear because greater are You who lives inside me than the enemy who is in the world. Enable me to fight the good fight and to advance Your Kingdom into the enemy’s occupied territory (Colossians 2:15; 1 John 4:4; 2 Timothy 4:6-8).

Father God, keep me alert to the evil one with spiritual eyes wide open as You use me to make a difference for eternity by helping other people come to know You, to grow in You, and to live for You (1 Thessalonians 5:6; Proverbs 4:23, 1 Corinthians 10:12; Matthew 28:19-20).

O Lord, thank You that absolutely nothing – not even the spiritual forces of evil – can separate me from Your love (Romans 8:38-39; Luke 4:1-13).

I ask all of this in the name of Jesus.

Amen and Amen.

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This prayer has been inspired by Ephesians 6:10-13. Some of the words and phrases in this prayer have been taken directly from the English Standard Version, the J.B. Phillips New Testament, The Message, and the New Living Translation. This prayer has also been composed with help from Dean Ridings, author of the Pray!Prayer Journal (NavPress) and Wayne Grudem’s Systematic Theology

The Essential Gospel: A Prayer based on Ephesians 6:5-9

O God, Ruler of all creation,

I praise You for being the Master who rules and reigns over all. As the eyes of servants look to the hand of their master, so my eyes look to You, Lord God (Psalm 123:2). As Your servant, it is right for me to give You my complete obedience.

But my loyalty to You as my one and only Master has wavered. Too many times I have sought to serve two masters. You have said, “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other” (Matthew 6:24). My love for the world and the things of the world has led me down the path of disloyalty to You. I have been a faithless servant. For this, I deserve to be cast out.

You, however, have invited me to turn to You. You declared, “Return, O faithless ones, for I am your Master” (Jeremiah 3:14). You made my return possible through the gospel by sending Your Son, Jesus, to be the Suffering Servant. He is my Pardon, suffering in my place as though He were the faithless servant. He is my Pattern, showing me how to be a faithful servant. He is my Power, sending His Spirit to live in me so that I can serve You fruitfully. When I repented and believed the gospel, You forgave my faithless servitude and have now accepted me as if I had served You as faithfully as Jesus did.

Even though I am now Your servant, I still fail to obey You in everything. One day, though, in glory, I will become completely conformed to the image of Your Son, Jesus Christ. On that day, I will serve You as my Master in all the ways You have always deserved. Until then, Lord God, You have made all master-servant relationships on earth to be profound pictures of the relationship that is to exist between You, our heavenly Master, and all Your servants.

As an illustration of the relationship between You, O heavenly Master, and Your servants, may leaders and followers – may employers and employees, government officials and citizens – learn to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21).

Help followers seek to please their leaders all the time, not just when they are being watched. May employees not just do what they have to do to get by, but may they work heartily as employees of Christ, doing the will of God from their hearts. Help citizens serve with enthusiasm, as though they were serving the Lord rather than serving governing officials. And may servants work with a smile, always keeping in mind that no matter who happens to be giving the orders, they are really serving God. Help us to know that whatever good anyone does, this we will receive back from the Lord.

Help people in positions of authority reflect Your authority, Lord God. May they be conscientious and responsible towards those who serve them. May they not misuse the power over others that has been put in their hands. May they never use threatening and abusive words. Help them not forget that they are responsible and accountable to You, their heavenly Master. Remind them that as their Master in heaven, you play no favorites and make no distinction between those who lead and those who follow.

May those who have been entrusted with the stewardship of leadership glorify You by imitating Your kindness, goodness, and love as our Master in heaven. May those who have been entrusted with the stewardship of followership glorify You by obeying their leaders sincerely with a proper sense of respect and responsibility, as service rendered to Christ Himself.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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This prayer has been inspired by Ephesians 6:5-9. Some of the words and phrases in this prayer have been taken directly from the English Standard Version, the J.B. Phillips New Testament, The Message, the New Living Translation, and The Amplified Bible.

The Essential Gospel: A Prayer based on Ephesians 6:1-4

O God, my Father,

I give You praise that You have not only revealed Yourself as our Creator, King, and Judge – titles that emphasize Your power, authority, and sovereignty over us, but You have also revealed Yourself as the eternal Father – a title that emphasizes Your loving heart. It is Your nature as a Father to protect and provide, to lead and to guide. You are the Father who teaches, reproves, corrects, trains, and disciplines those whom You love. Your Fatherly lovingkindness is better than life.

Yet just like Your first creatures, I have spurned Your love. I have been unteachable. I have rejected Your reproofs. I have been determined to lead and guide myself. I have acted as though Your Fatherly wisdom is foolishness. Because I have been so very rebellious, I have sadly paid the consequences. I have missed blessings that I could have enjoyed. Even worse, my sin against You and enmity toward You have earned Your wrath. 

In spite of my waywardness, though, You determined to pursue me. You loved me so much that You gave Your Son as the propitiation for my sin. You drew me to Yourself so that I would offer You a broken heart and a bended knee of repentance. You turned me, a child of wrath, into an adopted child of God. Now, I can call You my Abba, my Father.

Even though I am Your child, I fail to obey You perfectly and honor You fully. One day, though, in glory, I will become completely conformed to the image of Your Son, Jesus Christ. On that day, You will be honored as my Father in the ways You have always deserved. Until then, Lord God, You have made the Christian home to be a profound picture of the relationship that is to exist between You, Father, and Your sons and daughters.

As an illustration of the multifaceted, beautiful relationship between you, Father, and Your children, may daughters and sons in our homes do what’s right, obeying their parents in the Lord. May they accept their parents’ guidance and discipline. Help our children to honor their fathers and mothers, esteeming them, valuing them, and respecting them. May You fulfill Your promise to those who honor their parents; may things go well with them so that they may live long in the land.

May parents, especially fathers, not provoke their children to anger, frustrating them. Hold back parents from demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive. May they not show favoritism or indifference. Keep parents from exasperating their children to the point of resentment. Give parents the desire and the ability to bring their children up tenderly, with lovingkindness in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Help them to take their children by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master.

Father, Thank You for using the parent-child relationship to picture something profound – the relationship between You and Your children. Thank You for adopting me. Thank You for never acting in a way toward me that could possibly exasperate or frustrate me. Thank You for providing me with discipline and instruction that come my way day after day from Your heart of lovingkindness. Help me as Your child to obey You more fully and to honor You more deeply for being the good and great Father that You have been, that You are, and that You always will be.

In Jesus’ name, Amen

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This prayer has been inspired by Ephesians 6:1-4. Some of the words and phrases in this prayer have been taken directly from the English Standard Version, The Message, the New Living Translation, and The Amplified Bible.

A Gospel Prayer based on Ephesians 5:21-33

O holy God of love,

Long ago, in eternity past, You planned great good for Your people. Your intention all along has been to create a new community called the church that would stand before You in shining-greatness, in blameless holiness. Your purpose has been to create a people – to bring out their best – free from spots, wrinkles, or any other disfigurement.

Yet as I look at my life, I see darkness, shame, impurity, and uncleanness. And the people around me – family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, fellow believers – are full of faults, blemishes, and unholiness, too.

It is impossible for an unholy person, like me, and an unholy people, like us, to experience intimacy with You, a holy God. Apart from grace, we are doomed to miss out on a good and glorious future.

You, however, are full of grace. In spite of our faults, You sent Your Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, to love us and to save us. He gave Himself up for us so we could become the church, His new community. On the cross, Jesus sacrificed Himself with a love marked by giving, not getting. His love makes us whole. Jesus nourishes and cherishes us. His love sanctifies the church and cleanses us by the washing of water with the word. His word brings about our beauty.

One day, Jesus will present the church as a bride to Himself in splendor, beauty, and glory. Until that day, Lord God, You have made marriage to be a profound, mysterious picture of the relationship between Christ and the church.

May husbands and wives leave their fathers and mothers and be joined together so that the two become one flesh. May husbands and wives be filled with the Spirit, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. May wives respectfully yield to their husbands with a passionate strength just as the church submits to Christ. May husbands lovingly lead their wives with a sacrificial tenderness just as Christ loves the church. May our marriage relationships be so blessed by You so that husbands will help their wives and wives will help their husbands stand before You in holiness one day and hear You say, “Well done.”

Father, You have made the marriage relationship to be a great mystery that speaks of something profound – the marriage of Christ and His Church. Thank You that Your love through Christ will fulfill Your plan, Your intention, and Your purpose by creating a new community. You will make Your church an altogether glorious bride in Your eyes.

Amen.

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This prayer has been inspired by Ephesians 5:18b, 21-33. Some of the words and phrases in this prayer have been taken directly from the English Standard Version, J.B. Phillips New Testament, The Message, New Living Translation, and the New Life Version.